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How To Move On?

As a Motivational Speaker, this is my all time favorite. I saw people suffer, depressed and kill themselves (at least try to) because they don't know how to move on.

Well, No matter who agrees or disagrees I believe in few facts and kept in practice and had a huge success.

Let me start this by telling you a story, a real one.

One of my cousin's passed away few years back at the age of 16. Entire family was sad and depressed. But none killed themselves or stopped living their lives. I didn't either. I used to think about her before going to bed, used to have bad dreams for a while. But that's all. I moved on like everyone else. After few years of this incident, I broke up my 15 year relationship and what did I do? I moved on just like the way my cousin's mommy daddy did. Breaking up with a person is not too bad when compared to death. Well, I moved on and I am alive, fit, happy and healthy and I am here advising people and making difference.

Now, How to move on?

Wicked Smile Friends!! Though my advises are weird, they definitely works real time.

1. Move on just like the way you go shop for replacing your favorite brand of shoes or a dress. You might not find the exact same, but you will definitely find a better one.

2. Move on chasing dreams that you weren't able to achieve when you were in the relationship. It makes you sleep with a smile and confidence.

3. Move on realizing the fact that there are millions of good looking and successful people in the world who are ready to rock your world.

4. Move on feeling happy that you are still alive and world is waiting for you to get out of the box.

5. Move on being positive, being awesome!!

I know its not as simple as they sound. But I have other options too.

1. Text back someone who was interested in you but you ignored in the past.

2. Have a glass of wine, play some music, dance, cry and go to bed. Repeat!! Till you feel better!!

3. Hangout with strangers and share few laughs but never mention about your stupid breakup. No one really cares!!

4. Compare yourself with that "Ex", make a list of your wins and his/her failures and feel awesome about that.

5. Call your friends and tell them you need a replacement.


P.S : Don't ask me any questions on this post though. Rules are not meant to be explained or clarified!!

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